10 Praise Words brought for the greatest change

I'd like to choose the column topic that there are very little praise to others these days and need to adopt it in the business and normal life.

The following 10 words will give more specific and realistic praise method than just simply “ Be praise “ chat in the mouth.

People says praise will make whale to dance?

To recall my past, I'm also much short of the praise to my family, my staffs and friends. Please read with appreciation the following and please remind of your management style. Maybe I believe you can purify your mind as well.

The following are adapted the original content.

1.      Praise them the talent not having.

The words “Well your fashion sense is excellent” are better than

“Today your tie is gorgeous “. Things that people want are ability.

At the moment of recognition from others the wooden head can be the genius.

2.     Praise the process rather than the result

The words “You've done your best effort all the while” is better than

“You've done the first prize “

Please see the depth which get out of rather than the height which climb up and please make a value higher

3.     Praise the strong willing not the gifted talent

The words” who can overcome your sincerity?” Are better than

“You have a bright intelligence”

Original stone will be a jewelry after processing a gemstone.

Please stimulate the soul.

4.     Praise immediately not late

Today's one time praise is better than hundreds of praise of past one.

Praise do not grasp the head or tail

It feel awkward just like the clothes from the season past

5.     Praise the smaller one rather than the bigger one

Today's one time praise is better than hundreds of praise of last.

The small stuff will show the power with “Mmm” and “Wow”.

To gather together with a drop water, it'll make a river.

If hitter try to make a home-run all the time, he'll miss the swing only.

6.     Praise specifically rather than ambiguous.

Not simply “Looks good” but it'll be better “It's more suitable for autumnal mood that ~~ “

The abstract story cannot understand by ghost.

Please describe the situation concretely.

7.     Praise by public rather than by private

At least more than three persons rather than alone

To make a height an octane number of praise.

Especially the utility value of praise make a double if he/she is absent, leave his/her praise.

8.     Praise with the reward not simply words only.

“I'll take a treat this time” is better than “Give a treat, Please”

And stand treat for them.

The present is indispensable

Praise is not stayed on the word but the moment followed by the physical reward,

It'll be the masterpiece praise as well.

9.     Praise by subjectively rather than objectively.

“You're very good” is not enough but have to say the more sympathetic words,

This is, “ I'm also feeling elated, too” is better.

Please replace the words “Nobody can follow you “to “Can I ask you to be my mentor “.

After that you'll make a deepest relationship and learn from it.

Someday I'll be teacher or mentor to others under the heaven.

10.   Praise yourself rather than others

It's great. It's really good job and who can do it without myself?

Just chat frequently ‘I'm proud of myself'.

Please praise yourself in advance before praising others

Only one who praise himself, he can praise others

And praise as a hobby, do not say as a last mission statement.

There is no one who are born with the praise talent.

The genius can't overcome the striver,

The striver can't reach the one who enjoy.

Written by Gilwon Song, “The Happiness Stroller”